Sarala Life — Life in Chapters: Careers, Canines, Cabernet & Courage

Join me as I document what it really takes to rebuild your career, confidence, income and identity after the life you planned changes.

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  • Maybe I don’t need a Breakthrough; Maybe I need a Business Model

    Applause is lovely. But at some point, reinvention needs a business model—and potential needs a price.

  • On birthdays, reciprocity, disappointment, ambition, and learning to participate in my own life. There is something about a good glass of wine that encourages honesty. Maybe it’s the ritual of it. Pouring it. Sitting down. Not rushing to the next thing. Or maybe, by the time you reach a certain age, you realise some thoughts…

  • There are moments in therapy when you go hoping for comfort and leave with accountability instead. This week was one of those weeks. Not because anyone was harsh. Not because I was criticised. But because somewhere in the conversation came a truth that was impossible to argue with. If, in four years’ time, my life…

  • We spend so much of our lives chasing milestones that we forget to enjoy the life unfolding between them. A podcast I’d long hoped for, a warm afternoon in the pool, dogs at my feet and the simple permission to be present reminded me that perhaps success isn’t only about becoming—it’s also about learning to…

  • If I could have dinner with any fictional character, it wouldn’t be for the story everyone remembers. It would be for the conversation about identity, courage, and the quiet art of becoming yourself.

  • Sometimes the biggest transformations don’t happen on stages or during celebrations. They happen quietly, between client calls, airport lounges, ordinary Tuesdays and the life waiting for us when we return home. This month reminded me that confidence isn’t something we suddenly find—it’s something we slowly build, often without even noticing.

  • I used to think adulthood would eventually feel like arrival. I am beginning to suspect it is simply learning to be scared about the bills, hopeful about the future, tired of holding everything together — and still noticing the small things that are giving us more life.

  • If you had asked me a year ago what success looked like, I probably would have described achievement. A respected title.A seat at important tables.A calendar filled with meetings.A career that made sense to everyone else. Today, my answer is different. The biggest lesson I’ve learned recently is that purpose and practicality have to learn…

  • Negative thoughts don’t make you weak—they make you human. The real question is whether you let them make your decisions. Here’s what therapy, reinvention, and life have taught me about quieting the inner critic.

  • I thought I was travelling to speak. Instead, I came home carrying lessons about women supporting women, entrepreneurship, identity, and the quiet moments that reveal exactly where we belong. Sometimes the greatest transformation happens after the applause ends.