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Daily writing prompt
What are the biggest mistakes people make when visiting your country?

One of the biggest mistakes people make when visiting Trinidad and Tobago is assuming we’re only about Carnival.

Don’t get me wrong—Carnival is incredible. The music, the costumes, the energy, the creativity—it deserves every bit of its global reputation. But if that’s all you come for, you’ve only met one version of us.

We’re also early morning doubles vendors who somehow know exactly how much pepper you can handle before you’ve had your first coffee. We’re quiet beaches and hidden coves in Tobago. We’re conversations that last for hours around a kitchen island, where everyone is somehow related to someone you know. We’re Diwali lights, Eid celebrations, Christmas parang, steelpan, tassa, and a cultural blend that somehow works despite all logic.

Visitors are often surprised by how much of our identity is tied to community. We lime. We tell stories. We feed people as an expression of love. We will probably ask you where you’re from, who your family is, and whether you’ve eaten yet—all within the first five minutes of meeting you.

Another mistake? Trying to rush. Trinidad and Tobago reveals itself slowly. The best experiences are often the ones you didn’t plan: the roadside food stop recommended by a stranger, the sunset you accidentally catch, the impromptu gathering that turns into an unforgettable evening.

So yes, come for Carnival if you can.

But stay long enough to discover the people, the food, the humour, the resilience, the contradictions, and the warmth that exist long after the last costume is packed away.

Because Trinidad and Tobago isn’t just an event on a calendar.

It’s a collection of stories, cultures, and connections—and that’s where the real magic lives.

What’s a place you’ve visited that turned out to be completely different from what you expected?

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